Just wanted to talk a little about why I do Movember (on the last day of donations).
To be clear, here are some of the reasons I DON’T grow a mustache for Movember:
- To look macho
- To prove “what a man” I am because of my mustache
- To shame men who can’t really grow mustaches
- To scare my kids
When I went through cancer some of my hair fell out, some of it just stopped growing, and some just became really scraggly. I learned early on that my hair is not me. I also learned how much people actually judge you by your hair. As a man it was kinda’ easy to go out into the outside world without hair, but even still I would get looks or it would spark discussion. I think we, as a society, need to be more compassionate based on looks AND not scared.
Movember is a chance for me to reconnect to a different way of growing my hair which also helps me raise money for men’s mental health and cancers. It is also a chance for me to watch how people interact with me differently because of this caterpillar growing on my face. Given that I look like Danny Trejo from Machete with my ‘stache:
People on the street and new people I would meet would have a very interesting reaction to me. I was definitely more likely to have people do what I asked for and some were likely to look at me warily. I was still my usual friendly self with my goofy sense of humor and generally kind ways, but it didn’t matter. The look of my face with the mustache sent a definite signal. Next year, I think I am going to go even goofier on the mustache just to see what happens. Ok but enough of the serious talk.
Here are some reasons why I DO grow the mustache:
- I think it is really goofy and embarrassing to wear it. I actually think people should think they are giving me the money for making such a fool of myself. I mean really, growing hair on your face is not like running a marathon or walking long distances over 3 days – the only thing that makes it money worthy is that it is a social burden.
- It helps me give back to Men with mental health or cancer issues – two areas I have struggled with
- I get to make lots of jokes with my kids and friends about it.
- As all good Dads strive for – it gives me excellent weaponry to embarrass my children
So this is a long winded way of saying, in this season of spending, how about sending $10, $50, $200 towards a good cause!
There are two ways to give:
- You can go directly to my Movember page and donate there
- Buy your lovely lady friend (or yourself) a nice gift at Beklina.com and put movember in the offer tag – bam 10% goes to Movember!
Thanks in advance for all your support!
Just a little thought piece on some environmental news happening here in the Bay Area.
So on the Nerd for Nature group that I am a part of, someone posted this article with the subject “wtf”
Besides that title being so incredibly alarmist, it is articles like this that give environmentalists a bad name. If the author had taken the time and done some research, they would have found this piece:
This “clear cut” is actually a long term effort to get rid of some pretty nasty invasive plants. We, as humans, have done a pretty great job of screwing up ecosystems by introducing non-native species that can out-compete a lot of native species. For the plants I nominate English Ivy (in the picture above), and for the animals I nominate the Wild Boar, as my two poster children for the potential impact of invasives. English Ivy will grow at a phenomenal rate (killing trees and any herbaceous ground cover) and because of it’s underground runners, mowing it or trying to physical removal is an ongoing battle. Here, the Plant Conservation Alliance, talks about spraying Roundup and other herbicides as a means to control the plant.
Wild Boar do a tremendous amount of damage. I am not even going to talk about the crop damage they do because I consider that our fault for introducing them. But for native species, their rooting behavior and creation of wallows severely damages native plants and wetlands. Their voracious appetites are actually a very legitimate threat to several endangered newts and salamanders in the Central Sierras here in California. And since we did a nice job removing most of the top predators in California, there is almost no predatory pressure on them.
To be clear, these species are not to blame, but unfortunately through OUR actions, we have created a situation where we need to hunt and kill certain animals and spray toxic chemicals to eradicate certain plant species. Without these actions, native species, which I believe an inherent right to exist are at risk for extinction. I believe that having native plants and animals intact in an area is a public good and I am willing to pay (both time, money, and health wise) to ensure they are able to survive. I am not going to go to the edge case of mosquitoes and other native “nuisances” since I don’t think the world is an “either or” proposition.
Back to our situation here in the Bay.
I applaud Berkley for trying to get rid of their invasives. From personal experience, working on the IPANE project as the technical lead, I learned a lot about dealing with invasive plant species.
While I understand people’s concern about the Roundup and Woodchips application, it is probably the only effective way to prevent those trees from resprouting. They will NOT be broadly spraying the roundup but actually applying it directly to the tree stumps. This is a very targeted and much lower risk application. Spreading the woodchips will also probably do a great job of suppressing further growth of saplings and other invasives.
There are no half-way measures with invasives. Leaving “a few” around can have disastrous consequences, since these species are great at turning a few into many. You have to do as much as possible to eradicate it as you can. If you want an analogy, think about smallpox, getting only half of the cases eradicated doesn’t do much good – you either need to go all in or stay home.
In the Bay area, eucalypts are a huge problem. I cringe every time I see a grove of them and the same goes for acacia (I also dislike acacia because my middle offspring is allergic to it’s pollen). These plants out grow and out shade native tree saplings and ground cover. Like the second article says, they are a huge fire risk and very well adapted to grow back after the fire, thereby making it even harder to get native species back. If I had my way we would get rid of all the eucalyptus groves and acacia in Cali. and plant native species instead.
The first article is one of those articles that make we want to give up on people [/snark]. Seriously, it is ill-informed, anti-environmental, alarmist when it is not needed, conspiracy seeking, and just plain wrong. Figuring out the “right thing” in environmental issues is not always so simple as “save the trees” or “ban hunting”. To really understand these issues you have to spend more time thinking through all the implications and learning the science behind it.
So today is the Jewish holiday of Hoshanah Rabbah – Hoshanah means a plea – and in this case we are asking that all the great tragedies that could happen to us don’t happen and for a good year ahead. Since we were an agricultural people in a land of seasonal rainfall – we also ask for abundant rain. I am not sure if the original context is like a rain dance – thought to bring the rains – or it is a just a way of recognizing how much is out of our contol, especially life giving water.
Part of the ceremony is also beating willow branches until the leaves come off – the willow is chosen because it is such a water dependent tree. I went down the street this morning and cut about 2-300 willow branches so the adults at morning minyan and all children at religious school could have a chance to “beat the willow”. It was certainly a lot of fun. The added bonus for me was getting to hear California quail calling while I was cutting willow.
To recognize the importance of water in our lives I am giving $36 (double chai) to water.org. There are plenty of water organizations out there but I chose this one based up on its focus on all continents and a great Charity Navigator score. If you are Jewish why not think about giving some today (remember Tzedakah, Teshuvah, and Tefillah are all you really need [Justice, repentance, and prayer]). If you are not Jewish why not go ahead and give anyway. Pick an org that works to bring clean water to people or maybe works to keep our rivers and streams clean or maybe even the oceans protected.
Have a great Sunday and to my Jewish Readers – Chag Sameach, happy holidays!!
Here is my work blog post about my recent trip to Israel. Good times were had by all (or at least me)
Here are also some of my Israel pictures on SmugMug – not much time for travel but always nice to go to Jerusalem.
I wrote about my Uncle Aaron before http://thesteve0.wordpress.com/2007/05/28/on-this-memorial-day/, but it has been 5 years. I think I need to once again remind myself and other what my Uncle gave for his country and what others choose to do for our country. Whether you agree with the wars, wars in general, or violence – that is not the point of the day. The point of the day is these people have chosen to put themselves in harms way when asked (yes you could dodge the draft). They placed the calling of something else, for whatever reason, above their own personal well being. Many came home fine, but many will bear scars for their lifetime, and many did not come home at all.
So while many of us do our typical American style celebration by going out and spending money on sale items (it wouldn’t be a holiday if it wasn’t a chance to spend money on material goods) – let’s at least try to take a few minutes (or even seconds) to think of those who served.
Thanks Uncle Aaron – there are at least two young men named in your honor, who carry on your love of art and of being kind and caring.
Baruch dayan emet – Blessed is the one true Judge
Seriously – I know he is not perfect, but any liberal minded individual who gripes about him needs to get a frickin grip on reality. Think about what the 8 years before him were like – think if things like this would happen under Romney. We may not have our entire cake but I am getting a lot more dessert than I have gotten in a long time.
The time has come to close ranks and push it forward. So he may not be completely right with the TSA or internet rights or a bunch of other things but more so than Clinton even, he has done the most that I have ever agreed with in a President.
We lost the house and made life more difficult for him to carry forth his agenda. Rather than griping in public about some of the things he does now let’s instead push to win back the house. In American politics, for the foreseeable future it is a zero-sum game. Not voting or voting for a “protest candidate” when this much is on the line will push us back.
It is time to step up…
A couple of months ago I found myself walking around Santa Row (a neo-city shopping area on the higher end of the scale) and I came across an Orvis store. They had a sign on the door advertising fly fishing classes and that I should walk in to inquire. This is going to be a longer post but there is a question I need answering at the end…
A background digression
Ever since I was a kid I wanted to learn to fly fish. It always looked so elegant. I was a bait fisherman (with the occasional lure thrown in from time to time) for most of my childhood. I loved going fishing. My friend Tommy Sullivan and I would mix up a batch of dough, have my mom drive us to the park. She would head home and we would spend most of the day hanging out and just catching carp and sunnies. I had a subscription to field and stream magazine and would devour all of the fishing tips as soon as it came. I saw those crazy pictures of people fly fishing and really wanted to try it. But all my fishing was self-taught. My dad was from Iran so he didn’t really think of fishing as an activity you do and my mom fished a bit when she was a kid but wasn’t interested anymore.
From the time I entered high school until the time we moved to New Haven CT ( which is about 20 yrs) I just didn’t make an effort to go fishing. With the kids around I really wanted to get them into fishing and it is quite easy in CT. There are tons of little ponds and not that many people that fish, so you can easily find a spot where the kids can have something on the end of their line besides bait. One time we went to this little pond and my entire time their was spent putting worms on hooks and taking fish off hooks. As soon as the bait hit the water the sunnies would grab it. The kids had a great time.
Since New Haven is on Long Island Sound, and I was finally making money of my own, I decided to take up surf-casting. It was another one of those activities I saw in the magazine when I was a kid but I had nobody to take me. So I got a surf casting rod, a throwing net to catch bait fish, and then a lightweight rid to catch the young bluefish (called snappers). It was AWESOME. I had so much fun and I loved just being on the water casting and sitting. Every once and a while I might catch something and that was even better.
Okay, now you have a brief background into my fishing experience.
Back to Orvis
When I went into the store and asked about the lessons it turns out they were FREE!!!!! You don’t have to ask me twice for that. I put my name on the list to be contacted for the 101 class. I just had the class today and I have to say it is a lot of fun but I am going to need more practice. Another pro tip, even if you watch “A river runs through it” the night before, it is still hard to do (but you will also be reminded what an incredible movie that is).
There were folks from the Flycasters of San Jose there along with the Orvis staff and everybody was helpful and kind. They took us to a park and had us practice casting with some velcro on the end of our line. By the time the hour of practice was up I had a few casts that looked close to right but I know I need a lot more practice. I also want to go out and give it a try – either in one of the lakes by my house or down in Santa Cruz off the beach.
I need to get a setup and Orvis seems to have a good deal (along with some coupons they gave us today). Can anyone with fly fishing experience please tell me if this is a good deal:
The Streamline freshwater combo – 5 weight
The Clearwater – 5 weight
Or do you have a better suggestion for a combo. I would like to get started for less than $200 on Rod and Reel.
They also recommended a Mountain Guide lanyard for a nice way to carry your essential gear. And then I would need some flies – I could use some recommendations on that as well.
Please either comment on the items I link to or give me other great suggestions. I do not want to spend a lot but I also don’t want to be frustrated by non-functional tools. Any advice you can give a budding fly fisherman would be much appreciated!
Thanks and may your lines be tight!